Sunday, March 18, 2012

Downsizing Our Social Media Overload And Putting US First...


Ok...so I know that in today's society, we are nearly all of us becoming accustomed to the varied and many forms of communication, social media, texting, and  the "sharing" of everything about ourselves to nearly everyone. Some of this can be a good outlet for many. Sometimes, over time, as we have found out, it can become a "not so good thing" also.

For example...
Face book. My sweet husband and I love and have fun with our face book and school feed. BUT, now we have taken the steps to reverse our near constant connections to these two forms of regular & constant connectivity to....everyone and everything. There are many, many reasons for our decision, and in time we may reverse our decision to "unplug" from face book, but not for a long time to come.

In today's society, some things are being lost, misplaced, misunderstood, "re"placed by the wrong things, or forgotten about all together,  and more and more lines get crossed, and even twisted. When we as a society as a whole, become more and more content & comfortable with sharing far to much with far to many, then where is the line between privacy, restraint, respect, & commitment to our loved ones? Do the old lines of right and wrong become as a grey smudge on our horizon? Is it so easy to cross over into areas of society that are now accepted as "ok", and to seemingly walk away or dismiss the old ways of family, faith, value, respect & commitment, or the clear lines of right & wrong? Many now-a-days have no issues with being completely connected via many or all forms of social media, and to some degree, neither do my husband Bob or I. But, we (Bob & I) have just recently opened our eyes because of certain situations and recent events that have unfolded in our lives. As of yesterday, my darling husband and I have done what most would consider to be the "unthinkable"...LOL. We have both deleted our Face book and School-Feed accounts!

AAAHHH!!! Somewhat refreshing I might add!!!!

In time we may reverse our decision, but not right now.

Everyone has opinions, reasons and valid needs for enjoying and partaking of all that is open to them via the web, social media and more. Bob and I are no different. BUT...there come times in every ones lives when eyes must be opened, hearts must be willing to yield, and doing what ever it takes to improve relationships and more, THIS MUST take PRECEDENCE! This is where Bob and I are right now!

I will never close my blog! My husband stands behind me on this. I need this...love this...and it is beyond helpful to me in far to many ways to explain. All these reasons my darling husband is aware of and understands. Our primary choice for now is to be rid of face book and all of it's many components!!! I know many of our family and friends will never understand, but they shall just have to get over it! We must do what is best and right for us!!! If this is how God is leading us then we are doing the right thing! My sweet Lord will never lead us in the wrong direction.



This post us not meant to offend anyone. It is just a simple woman sharing from her heart about decisions made and changes that have occurred for her and her sweet husband, and for the sake of pouring out of my heart and head...which is what I do best here in my blog...my thinking spot!

I hope and pray your Sunday is a blessed one! May the Lord fill it with all his goodness intended for you!

Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Have you ever considered "Unplugging" just a little bit?
Just sayin'...

Friday, March 16, 2012

My day off...















T.G.I.F.!
My sweet boss. Dr. Runion. gives us employees 2 paid days off to take any time we want too after our share-a-thon as long as they are all taken by the end of the following month.
Sooooo wanna guess what I did today???
Yup...my paid day off! I am beyond greatful for a day off...muchless that it is paid. What a blessing.!!!
So today my darling husband  insisted I sleep in this morning! Um...ok...twist my tired arm...lol. I never sleep as late as I did this morning...10 a.m.....but oh how gloriously rested am I! Thank you Bob!
So I arose from a long...long nights sleep...well rested, and listening to the sounds of so many wonderful singing birds outside, and ready for my day...OFF! YAY ME!
I showered and dressed and made myself springy and pretty as I was going to meet my sweet husband for lunch. He had worked it out to get off early today since he must work tomorrow morning.
So clean...dressed...pretty...and loving this sunny, springy, bird singing day...I was off to meet my Bob.
We enjoyed lunch (for him...brunch for me...lol) together. It was wonderful. Next we headed to grocery store to grab just a few things for grilling out dinner tonight...steak and tater packetts. YUMMY!
We then came home...and have been piddlin' round the house, sitting in the swing outside in the sunshine...then when the rain started we sat on the front porch on our antique wooden chuch pew for a little while. We have even put out corn cobs for squirrells and seed for our birds.
The rain really started coming down with a fury so inside to the recliners we went.
This is where I am at this very momment...using my cell phone to type this post as I am nearest the front door. I can look right out the screen door (which the glass pane is open and fresh air is pouring through) as I enjoy the sounds of the pouring rain. I originally had a long list of to do's (or as I call it..."PODA"...flylady term which means Parade Of Daily Adventures). It sounds more fun than a to do list....dont'cha think...LOL. But as it turns out...rest...relaxation...and doing much of nuthin' is now my theme for the day! LUV IT!
The picture with this post was taken a lil while ago as me and my sweet Bob just say on the proch and enjoyed our time together.
Thank you Lord for a much…much...needed and long over due extra day off! A day to forget everything. Can't forget the current helth issue or the pain...but everything else has flown fast and free from deep within...me...my mind...my heart...my body! Thank you Lord!
I hope and pray your day is as wonderful and blessed as mine!
Have a Peachy Keen Day...I AM!
Love & Prayers
Ronda
P.s. I don't have spell check on here so if you find some spelling errors...just remember...today is my DAY OFF...LOL!

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Such Happenings...

I've been gone for a while...huh?
Mid February was the radio station Share-a-thon...which for me meant an 82 hour work week.
I got through it...with the Lords help. I have spent the past 3 weeks since then working like crazy here at work to get caught up on all of the remaining details. WHEW...it's  all done now.

Last weekend my son was deployed once again to the Persian Gulf area aboard the USS Enterprise.
He will be gone for ANOTHER 7 months! PLEASE HELP US PRAY FOR HIM!

I have been going through some health problems of late (please pray cause it's not over yet) all at the same time as the rest of these other events have been happening, yet I lean heavily on the Lord and my darling husband! I could not have, nor can I continue, in all that I must do, without either the Lord or my sweet Bob!

House, home, chores, work, obligations, things needing to be done or finished...so much to do, yet not enough time or strength.

Computer time, blogging time, face book time, pinterest time...piddlin' time! Oh where shall I find time? LOL

Oh Well, just glad I could make time today!

Have A Peachy Keen Day!

Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Friday, March 02, 2012

Front Porch Sittin'...

Can you guess what's on my mind?
Can you guess what I'd rather be doin'?
Sittin' on my porch!




Oh Well....


Have A Peachy Keen Day!!!

Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Thursday, March 01, 2012

Can You See...

Can you see what is in the picture?

Hanging under my front porch light is an antique R.C. Cola crate. I came home late one night last week after Share-a-thon. Well...I happened to look inside the crate and I saw a tiny sleeping surprise.  So I grabbed my cell phone and snapped a picture fast as I could.

So....can u see it? The tiny sleeping little bird.

So cute!

Love & Prayers
Ronda


Sunday, February 19, 2012

Something Funny Just Because...


I know today is Sunday, and I am about to go get ready for church, BUT...
I just had to share this one.

It just makes me laugh every time I see it.

so on a rainy, gloomy, cloudy Sunday, in which it is going to snow here today...
and none of my family is here with me 'cause hubby's workin, Possum is in Tennessee with her boyfriend and his family going to church, and my baby boy...well he is very sick and on his Marine base in S.C., I just needed a good laugh and thought maybe you could use a good laugh too.


I do not hate nature, but you gotta admit...it's really funny! Especially if you have cat's and know how particular they are about being clean.

Have A Praise Filled Sunday!

Thank You Lord for Laughter!

Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Thankful Thursday...Yet Again...

Should I make a list of things I am thankful for?
Would I have that much time?
Could I make a simple statement about being thankful on a Thursday?

Today....I am just...Thankful...for all my blessings granted and given by my sweet Lord!

Much of which I do not deserve, of that I am aware!
Yet, my Lord is generous, merciful, gracious & loving...despite it all!

Yes...Today I am just Thankful!

Have A Peachy Keen Day!

Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Thursday, February 09, 2012

My Surprise Was...

When I got home from work Monday evening, this box was sitting on the kitchen table. My hubby looked a bit surprised as he told me I had a package that was delivered, then he asked "have you ordered something?" I grinned and told him "nope", but that I knew what it was.

So I opened the box and found this envelope with my name on it, and a business card. I was so excited to see the card, and what was written with in.

The card is lovely. I couldn't help but wonder if she had any idea just how much I love butterfly's? What was written on the inside was so sweet, so lovely, so encouraging and private. I was so touched by the card, her sentiments so lovingly written inside.


Found inside the box, wrapped in protective paper, was this adorable red mug with black trim around the top, and it was all wrapped in plastic and gently held closed at the top with a creamy tan and pine green ribbon. At this time my excitement was really growing. I felt like a kid at Christmas...seriously!

As I unwrapped this adorable mug, the wonderful aroma of Chocolate floated upwards towards me. I couldn't help but to hurriedly lift it to my nose and take a big sniff. Man oh man...it smells just like "Hot Chocolate"!!! Amazing. Notice the cute little "marshmallows" on top? Oh how cute is that? VERY!

So here is a picture of all that was inside that little box from Quarryville PA., and my sweet friend
Becky. Becky is one of my blogger friends and her blog is "Hospitality Lane".
You really should go by and spend some time relaxing there. Not only is Becky ever so talented at making homemade soy candles which are lovely and BEYOND aromatically pleasing, but she takes some of the loveliest picture's, especially of nature, gardens, flowers, trees and much more, along with sharing about so much of her life, her faith, her church, and her family. Becky has her own candle company called "Good Neighbor's Candle Co". Click on that link and go see all the wondrous candles she hand makes.  You will be in love.


Sweet Becky...Thank You so very much!
I adore chocolate and candles, and you have so lovingly combined two of my favorite things. You are wonderful! Bet you had absolutely no idea, but my kitchen...is decorated in country red just like this lovely mug. I have apples and chickens all over my kitchen to boot. My curtains are a light creamy tan and country reddish wine color...just like the mug, but they are a checker board pattern just like the creamy tan and pine colored ribbon. So...how did you know? Because this chocolate filled candle in the red mug and creamy tan and pine ribbon is PERFECT for my kitchen decor.
YOU TOTALLY ROCK! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's funny how something like a personalized gift, which was so thoughtfully and lovingly made just for you, can touch one's heart. I have never had the pleasure of meeting Becky in person, but I have come to know her, adore her and love her via our blog's and the internet, as I have many others (such as Mrs. Rabe.  & so many, many more) I cannot fully express my joy, my thankfullness and how happy this Hot Chocolate candle mug has made me. Such thoughtfullnes from a friend so far away. My sweet Lord seems to use unusual ways to continually let me know...I Am Loved. Not just by him, but by many! Precious...so precious! A wonderful gift sent from a wonderful lady, and even the littlest detail of coloring of ribbons, and coloring and style of a mug which ever so perfectly match my mixed up, country style, hodge podgely decorated little kitchen, this all means so much.

Well, I am home today, still sick, but not down nor discouraged.

Have A Peachy Keen Day!
Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Wednesday, February 08, 2012

Delayed...posting...

Sorry everyone...I'm very sick and not able to do the post about the surprise I got in the mail.

I will try and do it tomorrow when I am able to sit at my computer. For now..I am doing this little post from my cell phone.

Have A Peachy Keen Day!
See Y'all Tomorrow!
Love & Prayers
Ronda

P.S. Mrs. Rabe...I got your comment yesterday...but something went wrong with my cell phone email and it got deleted....BUT your right...bet you do know who sent it and what it is...wink wink!


Tuesday, February 07, 2012

Sharing....

Just sharing some things I've found and adore. Hopefully you will love them to!


Luv this one cause I'm an optomistic, romantic, girly girl at heart!



Luv this one cause it's for my kid's and so true!



Luv this one cause it's encouraging and so helpful!



Luv this one cause it's TRUE!


LUV THIS ONE CAUSE IT'S ALSO TRUE!!!!!


Luv this cause it is a big help & great reminder!

Luv this JUST CAUSE it's HILARIOUS!


Have A Peachy Keen Day!
I Will!
Love & Prayers,
Ronda

P.S. Come back tomorrow to see something special!
I was blessed yesterday, and I'm going to share all the details
and picture's! It is wonderful!
HINT...
THANK YOU SWEET BECKY!!!


Monday, February 06, 2012

Beginning My Day...

Monday....

Beginning my day and my week with a hopeful and happy attitude.
Wanting to remain in an attitude of Praise.
Ever in need of my sweet Lord to be in complete control of everything, and to lead and guide me in everything I say and do.

Here's hoping and praying your day is equally as hopeful, happy,
praise filled in that the Lord is in full control of you and your day.

Have A Peachy Keen Day!!!
Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Wednesday, February 01, 2012

Short List...

Let's try a "short list" of what's been happening...


Husband got better...or so I thought...LOL
Husband got worse and even had to go to family doctor and hospital.

NOW...my hubby is better for real this time...LOL.


While hubby was sick...my OCD kicked into overdrive,
so I sterilized my home like crazy!
I love clean!!! I love sterile...especially when people are sick!!!





 
Me and my daughter "possum" have started back to classes again.
We are now taking class level 2 Sign Language.
LOVE IT!!!
Mom and daughter, together, in night classes...
who'da thunk it? LOL
What fun we are having tho!



Possum is also taking a Cake Decorating class on Mondays.
She loves it! I'm happy for her,
She loves to bake...anything!!!
She Loves to cook, especially  new recipe's she see's on the food channel.
We are the happy recipients of her wonderful cooking and baking.
LOVE IT!


Our little redneck Marine is out on "Pre-deployment" maneuvers...AGAIN...
He has been out to sea for nearly a month.
Soooo, um, bet you can't guess where the Marine Corp
 is gonna be sending my son  around the first of March, can ya'?
Yup, he is being deployed...AGAIN!!!
 Se we are all now gearing up again to prepare all Bobby's personal things, finance's etc,
for another deployment.
I got to talk to him early this morning...gosh I miss my baby boy
more than words can say!!!



 Let's see...what else...
Oh yes...
At work (for me) we are all gearing up...again...for Share-a-thon.
Lot's of work being done. Ton's of planning to do and to be followed through on.
Meals to get lined up with local churches, and all the restof which
is a about a ga-zillion other things I have to get done to prepare for
"my" portion of "my" responsibilities for it.
Man oh man the details are never ending.
Glad that my sweet Lord has given more Peace about my job.

Well, I guess I will stop boring you to death...for now any way...LOL.
I hope you are all GREAT!

Have A Peachy Keen Day!
Love Ya'
Ronda


 






Wednesday, January 25, 2012

All Better....


He is finally all better...

My sweetheart is back at work today and feeling so much better. He is still so very tired, but that's to be expected. It truly does my heart good to see my family healthy, happy and doing well.

My prayer for now is that I do not get the virus which he had. Nope...I don't want it!!! I ain't gonna get it!!!
You can't make me take it!!! LOL.

My sweetheart was sick with that thing all total...for 4 days...poor baby. Ain't nothin' worse than when a grown man gets really sick. BUT, he's better now...Thank the Lord!

Now I can go to work without feeling guilty or bad that one of my family is home sick and I'm not there to take care of them. This is a much better feeling...LOL.

Well...there you have it...my brief update and my large sigh of relief for today.

I hope and pray your day is wondrously blessed!!!!

Have A Peachy Keen Day!

Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Monday, January 23, 2012

What A Day...MONDAY...

Today has been....wierd to say the least.

My poor hubby is home sick. ALL BY HIMSELF. Gosh there really are days when I hate that I have to work a full time PUBLIC job. I was (and am) always best at being a stay at home wife, mom and homemaker.

He has had to be home alone, with no-one to be there to take care of him. I mean he is not an invalid or anything, but my heart has longed to be home to care for him all day.

It's been a
grey,




gloomy,




cloudy,




rainy,



cold



MONDAY...all day long. Hate that!  LOL.


Let's see...
At work today...
One of my co-workers is on vacation in Florida.
One came in and then went home sick...cause he came in even tho he had been....THROWING UP (ARG!)  ALL NIGHT LONG!  Hate that too... I truly am sorry he is sick...but come on...if you are puuking...stay home...please!
Then, my last co-worker leaves at 1pm everyday.
SOOOOOOO....
I've pretty much been here by myself!
BoRiNg!!!!!!!
I have been able to get alot of work done, but...(ok I'm about to start whinning...just warning you,,,LOL)
I wanted to go home tooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Oh well....Here is the bright side...

IT'S QUIT'IN TIME...

I'm heading home to see my sick hubby!

Hope your day was brighter, sun-shinnier- happier than mine.!

All in all guess my day wasn't so horrible after all...
I could have been sick too....LOL!


Have A Peachy Keen Day!
Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Cats...Candles...Chocolate...

We still miss our sweet Flossy!
Our "King George" is still with us, but he is so old & sooooo
fat, and in bad health. We are just thankful for each day he
is still with us!
Now we have our newest little baby...Honey!
Beyond curios and spastic! LUV HER!
Today I am longing for a day at home, peaceful music playing,
and lots of cozy, warm candles burning in every room!
CHOCOLATE!!!
Do I need to say anything else? LOL
LUV IT!

Have A Peachy Keen Day!
Love & Prayers,
Ronda

Friday, January 06, 2012

TGIF...Work...Strange Contentment and More...



Today is Friday and I am ever so glad of it. Although, I had Monday off of work, and have been so blessed to have a short work week, it has still seemed as if were a longer one. While I am thankful for my job, I STILL miss being able to just be a "STAY AT HOME" wife and mother. Yes..I know...my children are grown now, but being at home to cook, clean, take care of my home, and to now be able to make all my full attentions focused on my sweet hubby, and SO MUCH MORE, and (honestly) have more time to blog, write, read, relax, have lunch with a friend now and then....AH YES...those were the days. Yet, "this" is obviously the road in life for now, which my sweet Lord has planned for me. I shall not, nor do I regret in anyway being so blessed as to have a good job, and to be able to be of such a good  help to my darling hubby in anyway. When "ALL" of his overtime was immediately made to be a thing of a by-gone-era (except for the terribly rare weekend over time which is nearly NON existent) and it was painfully clear that inflation and a lousy economy reigned supreme, and our fundage was not sufficient to take care for all our needs and extras, then I did what any "good" wife (who loves her husband and children & is grateful for all he, my husband, has done to provide and care for our family and longs to be a "help meet" to her husband)  would do.....I got a job... again, just as fast as possible.

If you remember, it was at first (with this being my first time back to work in many years) a part time job with the Asheville Boy Scout retail shop, then the Lord saw fit to move me into my current job at the radio station. I think I shall always (deep at heart) remain a woman who's desire is to be at home and do all the many things that make-up being "a stay at home" wife and mother, which is part of my heart and my being. This has always been my deepest hearts desire even from childhood.




Having had a childhood where my father & mother was never really ever at home, and even when she, my mother was, being there with us, being actively involved in mothering, cooking, cleaning etc., these things for her were never anything she really wanted nor enjoyed. I have always known that my deepest longings were to marry the man of my dreams (done √ ), be a mother to those whom God would bless me with (done √ ), to love, enjoy, & appreciate the greatest job and gift of being a "good" wife and mother with a fully committed heart to do so, this was my dream from childhood.

The Lord has so wondrously blessed me in years past with having always made a way for me to be at home when my babe's were at home. My jobs...here and there, were always done around the needs of my husband and my babes. Substitute teaching full time for over 7 years, owning my own cleaning business for 11 years (till health made that one problematic), all things were done around my family, and my family always came first!!!!

My family still comes first yet it is still strange to me how things change and children grow up, and move on with their lives. My son..."the Marine" who is hardly ever hear (insert huge pouty face HERE ! ), and our sweet daughter (although still living at home) she works such LONG hours, she is hardly ever home either. But wife and mother are STILL my primary positions in this life.



Now I work full time, and have finally reached a place where I am truly content to stay in this job at WKJV, where the Lord has placed me. ALTHOUGH almost daily my heart still longs to be at home. THIS is what I do best. But, I am a full time working wife and mother, trying to balance work, hearth & home, health, church and more. Gee, I need another "me"...LOL.

The contentment (except for the occasional bad day at work when I want to run out the door screaming at the top of my lungs "I QUIT"!, which are now fewer than before...LOL) I am most content in my job, and I see that this "IS" where the Lord has me to be. I NEVER thought I would be in this place of contentment with "THIS" job. But I do wish my work day and work week were shorter. Oh well...can't have it all can I??



I have floundered and flip flopped back and forth in the daily management of home and work and all the many tasks of keeping both running smoothly. Just because one does not have "little" children at home any more, does not mean daily household chores & the caring for my husband and our home become easier or less. They are ALL still here, and still need doing. My sweet hubby & I have found something of a good rhythm in things (most of the time...LOL) but on the days when my Rheumatoid Arthritis & Osteo Arthritis are out of control and painful, everything changes. Oh well, this too is my life and I still daily need the Lords help to handle this too.

I could not imagine being able to make it through ANYTHING in this life, this world, today's society WITHOUT the Lord at my side and in "my corner" as they say.

Well, there you have it! Today's version of Ronda's Randomness from deep with-in!

Time has come again for me to go and get ready for work, and all I keep thinking is....

TGIF!!!!

I hope you

 "Have A Peachy Keen Day"!

Love & Prayers,
Ronda

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